Whether from my upbringing, personality type, or what I know from psychology, I do know this much about me: I do not like to fail. I don’t like to give up on anything. I don’t like to give up on my relationships, especially my marriage. One of the hardest parts of dealing with betrayal and navigating through our family transition is not just having to do with being betrayed. It has been dealing with the grieving for the family that I thought I would have.